The other day, I saw a pro-life billboard while I was driving in Brooklyn. I’ve heard about the racist anti-choice ad that went up in Manhattan recently, and I’ve seen a couple of similar oudoor ads on my many drives to Syracuse the past four years – but never have I seen one, right there in my city. And it sort of struck a weird chord in me.
I get a feeling (maybe I’ve read it places too? Feel free to fight me on this) that the pro-life movement is winning – in terms of dollars and rhetoric. I’ve heard that their organizations have more members than the ones over here on the pro-choice side. And maybe I don’t notice any pro-choice ads because they don’t make me mad, but I don’t see enormous billboards for me and mine, even though it seems more Americans today are pro-choice.
I’ve heard it framed in a way like…pro-choicers are on the ground, fighting and acting in a different way, because it just makes sense to us. We don’t feel the need to try to convert people with incensed rhetoric or bombing clinics (I know, that’s not the majority of pro-lifers, I know). We’re just going about our business, because we…know we’re right? For lack of a better whatever? When I volunteered at the NY State Fair with PPRSR, handing out condoms, so many people came to our table and were huge supporters – HUGE. Not activists, not radicals – just normal CNY folk. Regs. I feel like being pro-choice just makes sense to pro-choicers. I feel like we know we’re on the right side of history (just like everyone in the world ever), and we aren’t quite sure what all the fuss is about. Or something.
Or maybe it’s like, their words are more reactionary, they’ve got the upper hand when it comes to these type of things. Just in terms of “pro-life/pro-death” and the simplicity in the idea of fetuses being people. Theirs is the type of rhetoric that makes sense to children. The pro-choice side is sort of more complicated. Explaining the reality of abortion to children (and adults!) seems harder. Incest! Rape! Yeah, those are heavy. And so are the other parts, like access to healthcare and insurance, and sick days, and immigration, and domestic violence, and birth control, and systemic and class issues that contribute. I can send people over to Kansas Stories (The original site is no longer up? Gosh, that sure supports my argument) to get a picture of what being pro-choice is all about, or talk their ears off all day, but in the end, that billboard in Brooklyn is still there.
The thing is, I was the only person who graduated from Syracuse University this year with a dual degree in both Advertising and Women’s Studies. If anyone should be figuring all of this out, it should probably be me. That’s what I keep thinking. This is my fight.
I don’t know how to end this post! I don’t want to say what I’m really thinking, which is that I don’t know what to do or where to start; I know there are people who agree with me and are on the same page, and we’ve gotta find each other and DO SHIT! But instead of saying all that, I think I’ll just go do it.
(note! I’m really conscious of the “us vs. them” tone of this post, but I’m comfortable with it. I have a whole lot more to say about what being “pro-choice” means to me, but that’s not what this post was about. And I also mostly used the terms “pro-choice” and “pro-life” because I don’t believe it’s helpful to throw around hate speech and change what other people want to be called, or something. That’s also a topic for another post.)


